Same old lang syne

This post was partially inspired by a tweet I saw. People were talking about the one Christmas song that they can’t stand. A lot of people said the normal songs like Baby it’s cold outside, simply having a wonderful Christmas time, and mistletoe and whine. The song that drives me insane is this one. I […]

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Getting creative

I’m a bit late to the party You know what they say though, better late than never. If intercourse (vaginal or anal) is not your main form of sexual activity, what do you do? These days we do a bit of fingering and a lot of deep throating when we can. Is there a particular […]

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I had two ideas for this post. I was either going to do a short fiction piece or my thoughtts. Since I’m writing this before bed I chose the latter. I asked my big what his ideal porn site would be like. All he told me was that it would involve latina girls that spoke […]

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30 days of music day 6

Yes I’m still doing this. I am picky about the songs I choose for this. Sometimes I read the prompt and a song jumps out at me. Other times I have to wait to find the right tune. My library has 3000 songs and its still growing. Finding the perfect song is a delicate process. […]

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So in poly news…

I’m so happy to finally tell you guys the news that has been bubbling beneath the surface. ever since my big and I have decided to be polyam we havn’t had any partners. We’ve been busy with life and the baby and we just haven’t had the time. Now I have a new partner! I’m […]

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time for tmi again!

it’s a good one this week! 1. Lingerie–do you like to give it as a gift or received it? I’ve never received it as a gift and you know Christmas is coming up soon!!! (just saying) 2. What’s a good date night movie? I’m a weirdo so either something disney or horror. I’ve been wanting […]

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It’s been a while since I’ve done a kink of the week but here I am. This weeks topic is collars. When I entered the kink community I thoughtt they were only for pet play. my first submissive was a pet player. in fact he was a puppy and he wore a collar most of […]

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