Pride 2020

I have survived these past few months! If you are reading this then congrats you have survived too. I wasn’t going to write about pride month this year because I have been doing a lot of reading and educating on the blm movement and why it is important to me as a mother of a […]

My loneliness is killing me

I can’t sleep and feel so lonely perhaps it is the quarantine getting to me but I just feel like people can’t stand me. I know that isn’t true and I have wonderful friends and family and partners. Sometimes I withdraw from people because I feel like I would bore them because my life revolves […]

I’ve been quarantined too lomg.

I miss human conct, i crave to be touched by someone other than my son. I long for hugs, kisses, snuggles… Heck I even miss hand holding! My big and I are apart! In other news carol fed her husband to a tiger and you can’t convince me otherwise! Sorry this post is all over […]

Privacy, something slowly slipping away.

These days I wish I had more privacy. Living with family and practicing kink is like balanceing on a tyte rope. Eventually one of two things happen. Either your family finds your kink stash and you have to figure out how to explain yourself. That, or you could out yourself before they found out on […]

Tmi 2020

I’ve not written in a year! Shame on me. Since it’s tuesday I thought why not spill some tmi secrets with my readers. (If yall still exist after me being so neglectful) Before I start if anyone wants to do the writing prompt themselves or see what other peoples answers are you can Go here […]

End of year reflections

Hello, I will be first to acknowledge the fact that I let my blog fall by the wayside in recent months. I’ve had a lot going on in my personal life as well as school and such. However I’ve had a few friends reach out to me and tell me in no certain terms that […]

Reflecting back on the year so far.

it’s been a while since I’ve wrote anything and for that I apologize. Life has been so crazy for me. but its been crazy in a good way. I am starting school in the fall. I signed up for my first humansexuality course and I can’t wait to get started with it. On top of […]

Pretty little fears

It’s been a long while since I’ve done A food for thought meme. Since the prompt this week was room 101 and our world is slowly devolving into 1984 Territory I knew I couldn’t pass this one up. I’m going to have a little bit of fun with it though. Since my last couple of […]

self care

I used to laugh at people who went on about how important self care was. In my mind I couldn’t think of why it was needed. I mean in American society we don’t usually put value to self care. Where I come from at least if you take a break to do something relaxing it […]

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