self care

I used to laugh at people who went on about how important self care was. In my mind I couldn’t think of why it was needed. I mean in American society we don’t usually put value to self care. Where I come from at least if you take a break to do something relaxing it […]

#YouKnowMe

Trigger warning, abortion, grief, and politics.

40 little questions

I found this and thought it would be fun to fill out. I have been ridiculously sick lately so I was trying to figure out how to get back into writing. This was a perfect way for me because I was able to write about being a little. 40 Little Questions: To Get to Know […]

My mind is telling me know

But my body… my body is telling me yeees! Have you had an experience where either you, or your partner just weren’t able to “follow through” with the mood? Yes for me it has happened a bit more often post baby. Is it something that happens regularly No How did you feel at the time? […]

My smutty beginning

When I first entered the smut marathon I’ll be honest. I didn’t think I’d make it to round 2 so when I found out I made it to round 3 I was half in disbelief and half elated. Round 1 wasn’t difficult as far as writing goes. I just suck at time management and I […]

Happy monday!

Good morning all my lovely readers! I come with some great news! I have officially finished my training and I can proudly say that I am a volunteer with the crisis textline! The training was entense at times and I didn’t know if I would make it threw but with a little help from my […]

30 day music Challenge day 13

DAY 13: One of your favorite 70’s songs Hello all, happy Friday. And happy national Margarita day! It’s been a long hard busy productive week, and I’m ready to sit back and celebrate with a margarita, and why not celebrate with one of my favorite songs from the 70s. Margaritaville is one of my favorite […]

we all bleed red

Periods are a funny thing. When you don’t have one you want one. When you’re in the throws of the bloody mess you’re cursing eve’s name and wishing she didn’t have to eat that stupid apple! The one thing most people have in common though when it comes to periods is, we don’t like talking […]

Elust

Photo courtesy of Katteroo Welcome to Elust 115– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #116? Start with the rules, come […]

an emotional rolercoaster

Fun fact: Hysteria was an actual diagnosis for women when they went to the Doctors to get some help back in the day. In other words, for years people didn’t take us seriously when we said we were feeling off mentally. They just assumed it was because were women and you know what they say, […]