My smutty beginning

When I first entered the smut marathon I’ll be honest. I didn’t think I’d make it to round 2 so when I found out I made it to round 3 I was half in disbelief and half elated. Round 1 wasn’t difficult as far as writing goes. I just suck at time management and I […]

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Happy monday!

Good morning all my lovely readers! I come with some great news! I have officially finished my training and I can proudly say that I am a volunteer with the crisis textline! The training was entense at times and I didn’t know if I would make it threw but with a little help from my […]

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30 day music Challenge day 13

DAY 13: One of your favorite 70’s songs Hello all, happy Friday. And happy national Margarita day! It’s been a long hard busy productive week, and I’m ready to sit back and celebrate with a margarita, and why not celebrate with one of my favorite songs from the 70s. Margaritaville is one of my favorite […]

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we all bleed red

Periods are a funny thing. When you don’t have one you want one. When you’re in the throws of the bloody mess you’re cursing eve’s name and wishing she didn’t have to eat that stupid apple! The one thing most people have in common though when it comes to periods is, we don’t like talking […]

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an emotional rolercoaster

Fun fact: Hysteria was an actual diagnosis for women when they went to the Doctors to get some help back in the day. In other words, for years people didn’t take us seriously when we said we were feeling off mentally. They just assumed it was because were women and you know what they say, […]

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The bdsm baby blues

There’s a few things about parenting that are taboo conversations. These conversations usually revolve around the not so glamorous sides of parenting. Feelings of isolation can happen with new moms in my experience. From what I’ve observed its something we go threw but don’t want to talk about. Regardless if you’re vanilla or kinky parenting […]

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I love to laugh!

Ha ha ha ha, loud and long and clear… That’s the second Mary Poppins reference I’ve had in the past few days. Apparently I need to watch that movie again. Do you believe in the saying laughter is the best medicine? Why or why not? How important is laughter in your life or your partner […]

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