Food for thought on Sex ed

Hi all, you know what time it is! It’s food for thought Friday, but on Saturday. I know I know I’m such a rebel. This weeks topic is about sex education so here goes nothing and enjoy! 😊 What elements do you believe a comprehensive sex education programme should cover and why? I believe that […]

Quick PSA and SOSS post

Good morning all! If you’ve been in the twitter/youtube part of the bdsm community You’ll know about this controversial expose that got posted outing A predator. I was going to write a post about it myself however I’ve been very busy so I decided to participate in share our s*** saturday and share the post […]

Do you feel entitled to sex?

In recent celebrity news. A video from a few years ago resurfaced. In this video the male interviewee made some outlandish statements about oral sex. Here is a brief paraphrased summary of what those statements were. “Men are kings and need to be treated as kings. Women need to praise them by giving them head […]

Annoying fetishes…

Hello to all of my lovely readers, first of all I am so happy that I made it to 100 followers! Thanks to all of you for following me and supporting me in this crazy journey that we call life. My cats want to say hi and show their appreciation. ADisclaimer: I’m not kink shaming, […]

Online communities versus local communities

Hello guys, so I’ve been helping moderate a group on Facebook for alternative lifestyles for the past couple of months. I figured since I’m active in my local scene I would test out the online waters and see what it was like. I feel so lost in the online community though. I’m not talking about […]

I don’t have to prove my sexuality to anyone!

First of all, I just want to thank God that the people who I care about do not share the same opinions of this person. This girl I know shared her opinion about bisexual females and it went something like this. “I’m sick of all these girls claiming to be bi. For me, if you’re […]

Ignorance isn’t always bliss.

So I found this video last week that explained this really disturbing trend that’s going on the U.S. I think these people bring up a lot of good points, I have been saying this all along. I’ll even take this a step further though.I know some adults in the online kink community that are bound […]

my stalker!

Hello darlings, I want to tell you the story of the creepy guy I keep running into at school. I’m writing this partially because people need to know how to address people with disabilities and partly for my own amusement. It started out when I was walking to class. This random guy walked up to […]

I’m A brat so I do what I want!

PSA Just because you call yourself A little or brat doesn't mean you can act like an inconsiderate childish human. I have seen many a little say something like, Doesn't my dd know I'm a little? I'm supposed to be clingy, helpless, and rude. They might not say it that way, but that's how it […]

Little space

These daysit is ridiculously hard for me to get into littlespace. I have been so stressed and dealing with a lot. Lately I have been so needy. I have been craving affection and attention. Thank God my big has been so understanding, sorry this is such a depressing post but on the upside the first […]