To study or wing it.

In my life I’ve never heard males discuss tips on pleasing their partners. I thought that was something only females did. My theory was blown out the window last night. It all started when I jokenly said, “I’ve come to the conclusion that latinas/latinos have higher sex drives than normal humans”. My male friend (who […]

I’ve officially been 22 for five days.

In my first five days of being 22 I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot. I have moved into my very first apartment. I do not live with anyone else, just me myself and I, of course of my stuffed animals too but that goes without saying. 🙂 My big and I live a floor […]

Poly breakups are hard…

I tend to underestimate just how emotionally invested in people and relationships I get and this was one of those times. I had been casually seeing this female for a little bit. After a while I hadn’t heard from her so I messaged her to check on her. Turns out she found someone else and […]

Proud little me

So I’ve been meaning to post this for a while but I’m so proud of my big! He graduated college in december and is going back for a masters degree!!!

threesomes, d/s and sexy posissions Oh my….

I’ve always heard people say something like, “I’m the most open minded person I know. I can talk about anything…” To these people all I can say is this…. Be careful what you wish for because when it happens you realize you aren’t the freakiest person ever and believe me you haven’t heard it all. […]

Reflections and new beginnings.

Hey guys, first of all I hope your Christmas and new years celebrations were amazing! Mine was fun and unpredictable as usual. I’ve been doing some reflecting on 2017 and I can say I’ve accomplished a lot. Vanilla me went back to school,made new friendships, fixed old friendships, and saw my relationship grow with time. […]