I made it to december!

Let me just preface this by saying this year has been absolute madness for everyone. I know I can speak for everyone when I say I am so glad we are moving into a new year soon. I hope everyone has been as well as they can be during these trying times. I myself have […]

I’ve been quarantined too lomg.

I miss human conct, i crave to be touched by someone other than my son. I long for hugs, kisses, snuggles… Heck I even miss hand holding! My big and I are apart! In other news carol fed her husband to a tiger and you can’t convince me otherwise! Sorry this post is all over […]

Privacy, something slowly slipping away.

These days I wish I had more privacy. Living with family and practicing kink is like balanceing on a tyte rope. Eventually one of two things happen. Either your family finds your kink stash and you have to figure out how to explain yourself. That, or you could out yourself before they found out on […]

Tmi 2020

I’ve not written in a year! Shame on me. Since it’s tuesday I thought why not spill some tmi secrets with my readers. (If yall still exist after me being so neglectful) Before I start if anyone wants to do the writing prompt themselves or see what other peoples answers are you can Go here […]

self care

I used to laugh at people who went on about how important self care was. In my mind I couldn’t think of why it was needed. I mean in American society we don’t usually put value to self care. Where I come from at least if you take a break to do something relaxing it […]

40 little questions

I found this and thought it would be fun to fill out. I have been ridiculously sick lately so I was trying to figure out how to get back into writing. This was a perfect way for me because I was able to write about being a little. 40 Little Questions: To Get to Know […]

My mind is telling me know

But my body… my body is telling me yeees! Have you had an experience where either you, or your partner just weren’t able to “follow through” with the mood? Yes for me it has happened a bit more often post baby. Is it something that happens regularly No How did you feel at the time? […]

My smutty beginning

When I first entered the smut marathon I’ll be honest. I didn’t think I’d make it to round 2 so when I found out I made it to round 3 I was half in disbelief and half elated. Round 1 wasn’t difficult as far as writing goes. I just suck at time management and I […]

Elust

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The bdsm baby blues

There’s a few things about parenting that are taboo conversations. These conversations usually revolve around the not so glamorous sides of parenting. Feelings of isolation can happen with new moms in my experience. From what I’ve observed its something we go threw but don’t want to talk about. Regardless if you’re vanilla or kinky parenting […]