self care

I used to laugh at people who went on about how important self care was. In my mind I couldn’t think of why it was needed. I mean in American society we don’t usually put value to self care. Where I come from at least if you take a break to do something relaxing it […]

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40 little questions

I found this and thought it would be fun to fill out. I have been ridiculously sick lately so I was trying to figure out how to get back into writing. This was a perfect way for me because I was able to write about being a little. 40 Little Questions: To Get to Know […]

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My mind is telling me know

But my body… my body is telling me yeees! Have you had an experience where either you, or your partner just weren’t able to “follow through” with the mood? Yes for me it has happened a bit more often post baby. Is it something that happens regularly No How did you feel at the time? […]

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My smutty beginning

When I first entered the smut marathon I’ll be honest. I didn’t think I’d make it to round 2 so when I found out I made it to round 3 I was half in disbelief and half elated. Round 1 wasn’t difficult as far as writing goes. I just suck at time management and I […]

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Elust

Photo courtesy of Katteroo Welcome to Elust 115– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #116? Start with the rules, come […]

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The bdsm baby blues

There’s a few things about parenting that are taboo conversations. These conversations usually revolve around the not so glamorous sides of parenting. Feelings of isolation can happen with new moms in my experience. From what I’ve observed its something we go threw but don’t want to talk about. Regardless if you’re vanilla or kinky parenting […]

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30 day music challenge day 11

DAY 11: A song that you never get tired of: I thought I would have fun with this one by blending 2 memes together. At first glance one might think how can a meme about masturbation have anything to do with a meme about music? The short answer is, the image for this weeks prompts […]

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Getting creative

I’m a bit late to the party You know what they say though, better late than never. If intercourse (vaginal or anal) is not your main form of sexual activity, what do you do? These days we do a bit of fingering and a lot of deep throating when we can. Is there a particular […]

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Pornografia

I had two ideas for this post. I was either going to do a short fiction piece or my thoughtts. Since I’m writing this before bed I chose the latter. I asked my big what his ideal porn site would be like. All he told me was that it would involve latina girls that spoke […]

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