My smutty beginning

When I first entered the smut marathon I’ll be honest. I didn’t think I’d make it to round 2 so when I found out I made it to round 3 I was half in disbelief and half elated. Round 1 wasn’t difficult as far as writing goes. I just suck at time management and I […]

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we all bleed red

Periods are a funny thing. When you don’t have one you want one. When you’re in the throws of the bloody mess you’re cursing eve’s name and wishing she didn’t have to eat that stupid apple! The one thing most people have in common though when it comes to periods is, we don’t like talking […]

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It’s been a while since I’ve done a kink of the week but here I am. This weeks topic is collars. When I entered the kink community I thoughtt they were only for pet play. my first submissive was a pet player. in fact he was a puppy and he wore a collar most of […]

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Food for thought on Sex ed

Hi all, you know what time it is! It’s food for thought Friday, but on Saturday. I know I know I’m such a rebel. This weeks topic is about sex education so here goes  nothing and enjoy! 😊 What elements do you believe a comprehensive sex education programme should cover and why? I believe that […]

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Quick PSA and SOSS post

Good morning all! If you’ve been in the twitter/youtube part of the bdsm community You’ll know about this controversial expose that got posted outing A predator. I was going to write a post about it myself however I’ve been very busy so I decided to participate in share our s*** saturday and share the post […]

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phoning it in

I honestly could have written a lot more but the post was getting quite lengthy. Also, I was going to post the links to my profiles but if I post one I cannot post the other and I didn’t think that was fair so I’m not posting either of them. Final note: trigger warning this brings up taboo subjects so read at your own risk. Enjoy! 🙂

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The miseducation of wittie

Earlier this week my big and I were listening to music and he was shocked to find out I knew about the album The Miseducation of Lauren Hill. Fast forward to today and I found the prompt for wicked Wednesday and I couldn’t resist making my title what it is. 🙂 The prompt is all […]

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sense and sensibility

Hi all, it’s food for thought time! There isn’t going to be another food for thought this friday and I saw this one and couldn’t resist putting my thoughts in. This week the topic is sense and how if at all it effects sex. For me this is going to be a good way to […]

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