How do you style your pubic hair? What were your reasons for choosing that style?
Honestly I trim it in the spring/summer but other than that I don’t do a lot. Growing up I wasn’t made to shave down there so I didn’t even give it a second thought. That all changed when I became a teenager and heard how girls shaved because it was normal especially if you had a boyfriend. Hearing that changed my thinking. My new mindset was guys like it this way apparently so this is what I have to do. Nowadays I don’t care what others think. I did research into how different cultures viewed pubic hair and found that not everyone viewed it in the way us Americans do. I also gave up on trying to have a perfect.volva, what is that anyway? Each one is unique in its own way.
What are your preferences for a partner’s styling?
My preference is that my partner feels comfortable in their own skin doing whatever they want. After all, it’s their body not mine.
Would you (or have you) ever change(d) your styling just to please a partner?
I have done in the past yes. Going back to my high school days I was terrified for my partner to see me because I thought he would think I was weird and nasty. (Some people equate having hair to being unhygienic.) he had already seen it but I wanted to surprise him one day so I decided to shave everything. It took forever, and I felt really weird but I couldn’t wait to see his reaction. When he saw it he was shocked, he had gotten used to me having hair and liked it. Apparently he missed it.
A similar story with pretty much the same outcome happened with my current partner when we first got together.
My conclusion is girls put way too much pressure on themselves, and men don’t care nearly as much as we think they do.